Some time ago I have been following a couple of topics in a forum, where a girl says no longer supports her boyfriend (with whom he lives) walk looking at other girls. That's not all: also yells guarangada. In one of those presumed so many times, he left without cutting the phone, and she had the opportunity to hear how the most terrible misogyny shot out of the mouth that said "I love you" every day. Upon arriving home, she asks him if he says things to the girls, to which he answers with a resounding "NO". The girl turns to face telling him to listen because it left hanging the phone, and asks others why he lied.
The offended because "it violated his privacy by listening", and goes home. (No responses)
ista girl, writes its status in the forum, asking if all men do this and why, I reckon that with the intention to understand your partner and not break the input relation. Already discussed the topic that denotes a false belief about men: All men are voyeurs, all men cry rudeboys, and as I am heterosexual and do not want to live alone the rest of my life me I have to bench.
Obviously my answer was, in short, more or less like this: "First we should not generalize, both men and women look of straw and say things on the street. Secondly, not everyone does ( I do not, or my partner), and thirdly, if you fuck not what you'd have to bench. Mand looks like a lack of respect for you, because you feel so well. And as a woman who happens all the time so that you walk shouting rudeboys, or watching with some sexual intent, it seems offensive to me too. "
I thought I had written some criteria, some common sense .. . but then I met with a host of responses absolutist in nature, claiming that man (male) is biologically designed to warm up with what is female crossing, which is socially approved attitude, which is normal, that is healthy (?) , etc. And it would have seats. Some told me I too, as if I had such a problem with my partner, or insinuating that I do not know as well asor my mail, I read a couple of responses from a girl telling me what I exaggerated by saying "I do not only attracts people to her, I want something more, much more," and some other people pretending to ignore what we write this couple of people and I, and re-affirm absolutism that "there is nobody who does not look." I was passed over, ignored, and above all things, I felt kind of people that hindered the advice I could get to give this girl, that banks worried about having a partner. And so I decided to write here in my journal:
"TO YOU, SOME KIND OF PERSON LIST: If your partner is MIRONA, rudeboys, LIAR ... You do not have BANCARTELA WHY DO NOT ALL PEOPLE SO, YOU OTHER OPTIONSNES, YOU CAN CHOOSE! "
And with that, I think escibir finished what I needed to read. Do not expect answers, just that this message will reach someone who really needs it. To me that's enough to feel good for having helped, contributed to Liberty.
Greetings! MINA
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